"I see a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need." — Tyler Durden
You are failing because you are bored.
You go to church, you sit in the pew, you sing the songs, you listen to a 30-minute sermon about "being nice" or "loving your neighbor," and then you go home.
Your soul is screaming.
Deep down, you know that the version of Christianity you've been sold—the safe, sanitized, coffee-shop version—is not the religion of the Apostles. It is not the religion of the Martyrs. And it is certainly not the religion of the Man who flipped tables in the temple.
The Lie of "Nice" Christianity
Somewhere along the way, we equated "holiness" with "niceness." We started believing that the goal of the Christian life is to be a pleasant neighbor who pays his taxes and doesn't say bad words.
But look at the Bible.
- David was a warrior who stacked Philistine foreskins.
- Elijah mocked the prophets of Baal before slaughtering them.
- Paul was beaten, shipwrecked, and imprisoned, yet he never stopped fighting.
- Jesus called the religious leaders "vipers" and "whitewashed tombs."
Does that sound "nice" to you? Or does it sound dangerous?
You Need a War
Men are built for conflict. We are designed by God to conquer, to protect, and to build. When you remove the struggle from a man's life, he doesn't become peaceful—he becomes self-destructive.
Why do you think so many Christian men struggle with porn?
It's not just lust. It's a misdirected drive for conquest. You have no battles to fight in the real world, so you seek a cheap, counterfeit victory in the digital one.
"The reason you are addicted to comfort is because you have no mission that requires you to be strong."
The Solution: The War Room
You need to stop consuming and start training. You need to surround yourself with men who will not tolerate your weakness.
This is why I built The War Room.
It's not a support group. We don't sit around and cry about our feelings. It's a training ground.
- We study the Bible like our lives depend on it (because they do).
- We listen to Final Fight Bible Radio—24/7 preaching that cuts to the bone.
- We hold the line against a culture that wants us dead.
"This content changed how I see manhood. The War Room is the brotherhood I've been missing."- James, TN
If this hit you in the gut, you need The War Room. $3. Lifetime. Join now or stay soft.
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P.S. If you're thinking "this guy sounds harsh," you're probably not ready. And that's fine. The door's always open when you are.